I’m on a mission to help women over 40 shatter the chains of chaos, self-doubt, and “not good enough” feelings, and step into a life that feels peaceful, meaningful, and unapologetically theirs.
My journey hasn’t been easy—I’m a survivor of a nervous breakdown and a two-year-long burnout, but those experiences shaped who I am today. They helped me discover my passion: guiding incredible women like YOU to reconnect with your true self, embrace your worth, and finally feel free to live life on your terms.
As a single mum of two boys, I know how heavy life’s demands can feel. Like so many women, I spent years trying to juggle everything—parenthood, work, relationships—while losing sight of who I was. My days were filled with overthinking, guilt, and endless chaos. I was stuck in survival mode, convincing myself I had to keep going, even though it was slowly breaking me.
But here’s what I learned: that constant battle doesn’t have to define you.
There is a way to leave behind the exhaustion, the people-pleasing, and the endless cycle of “doing it all” while feeling like it’s never enough.
As a single mum of two incredible boys, I understand what it’s like to juggle all the responsibilities while still trying to figure out who you are, what you want, and how to stop feeling “not good enough.”
I’m endlessly fascinated by life stories—especially how our upbringing and experiences shape the choices we make and the lives we live today.
That’s why I’m so passionate about guiding women to find their voice, embrace their worth, and create a life they absolutely LOVE—without ever feeling held back by what others might think or say.
I believe YOU deserve to live life on your terms, confidently and unapologetically!
And I can’t wait to help you do just that. So, let’s dive into your story and work together to create the transformation you’ve been longing for!
- Peggie, Wisconsin USA
- Brandy, Michigan USA
- Ina, The Netherlands
I grew up believing my worth was tied to how much I could give to others.
I thought if I just worked harder, cared more, and kept everyone happy, I’d finally feel like I mattered. But no matter what I did, I was left feeling invisible, empty, and unworthy.
When I became a mother, those feelings resurfaced with a vengeance. I lost myself completely in the roles of “mum” and “caretaker,” putting my needs last and sacrificing my peace in a desperate attempt to keep everything together. Eventually, the weight of it all caught up with me.
My nervous breakdown and two-year-long burnout forced me to confront the truth: the life I was living wasn’t sustainable. I realised I’d been stuck in conditioned patterns of chaos and self-sacrifice that robbed me of joy, peace, and a sense of self.
That chapter, as painful as it was, became the catalyst for change. I realised I wasn’t alone. So many women carry the weight of unworthiness and old beliefs, but here’s the most important thing I learned:
Your past doesn’t define you. You get to rewrite your story.
Today, I’ve created a life filled with purpose and peace, and I’m passionate about helping you do the same. Through my coaching programs, I help women just like you break free from survival mode, heal from past conditioning, and rediscover who they truly are.
You deserve to live a life that feels joyful, calm, and aligned with your deepest desires. Together, we’ll shatter the old beliefs keeping you stuck and build the life you’ve been craving—a life that finally feels like
yours.
Now, let’s get started, shall we?!
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