Milou Hilhorst Coaching

Meet Milou

Empowering, resilient and passionate

Hey there! My name is Milou; I'm an accredited Empowerment Life Coach and the proud creator of "The Peaceful Chaos Method" coaching program.

My journey hasn’t always been smooth—I’m a survivor of a nervous breakdown and a 2-year-long burnout, but those experiences are exactly what led me to discover my true passion: helping amazing women like YOU take back control of your lives!

As a single mum of two incredible boys, I understand what it’s like to juggle all the responsibilities while still trying to figure out who you are, what you want, and how to stop feeling “not good enough.”

I’m endlessly fascinated by life stories—especially how our upbringing and experiences shape the choices we make and the lives we live today.

That’s why I’m so passionate about guiding women to find their voice, embrace their worth, and create a life they absolutely LOVE—without ever feeling held back by what others might think or say.

I believe YOU deserve to live life on your terms, confidently and unapologetically! And I can’t wait to help you do just that. So, let’s dive into your story and work together to create the transformation you’ve been longing for!

Meet Milou

Empowering, resilient and passionate

Hey there! My name is Milou; I'm an accredited Empowerment Life Coach and the proud creator of "The Peaceful Chaos Method" coaching program.

My journey hasn’t always been smooth—I’m a survivor of a nervous breakdown and a 2-year-long burnout, but those experiences are exactly what led me to discover my true passion: helping amazing women like YOU take back control of your lives!

As a single mum of two incredible boys, I understand what it’s like to juggle all the responsibilities while still trying to figure out who you are, what you want, and how to stop feeling “not good enough.”

I’m endlessly fascinated by life stories—especially how our upbringing and experiences shape the choices we make and the lives we live today.

That’s why I’m so passionate about guiding women to find their voice, embrace their worth, and create a life they absolutely LOVE—without ever feeling held back by what others might think or say.

I believe YOU deserve to live life on your terms, confidently and unapologetically!

And I can’t wait to help you do just that. So, let’s dive into your story and work together to create the transformation you’ve been longing for!

Results

We made this happen together

"I no longer spiral into overthinking. Together, we created a mindset of calm, helping me handle life’s challenges with clarity & confidence."

- Peggie, Wisconsin USA

We made this happen together

"I stopped carrying the weight of everyone else’s issues. We set boundaries, and I now focus on what truly matters—without guilt."

- Brandy, Michigan USA

We made this happen together

"For the first time, I see how my past shaped me. Together, we uncovered the root of my struggles and started rewriting my story."

- Ina, The Netherlands

My Story

I’m so grateful you’re here to read my story. I believe that our challenges can be our biggest teachers, and for me, that journey started long before I even knew what “self-worth” really meant.

Growing up, I learned early on to put myself on the back burner. I thought that if I pleased everyone else, I’d finally feel accepted, appreciated, and enough. But no matter how much I tried, no matter how hard I worked, I still felt like a failure—never good enough.

That need for approval stuck with me through the years, until eventually, it all caught up with me... When I became a Mum, everything resurfaced. I found myself slipping further back into old patterns of putting myself last, trying to keep everyone else happy and losing myself in the process.

My nervous breakdown and a two year-long burnout became my wake-up call—one that completely changed my life. Through this tough chapter, I realised I wasn’t alone. So many of us feel unworthy, lost, or “not good enough” because of the weight of old conditioning. But here’s the best part:

It doesn’t have to be our story.

We don’t have to be defined by our past.

We get to choose who we want to be.

Today, I’m here, filled with passion, purpose and so much gratitude, helping amazing women like you rediscover their voice, embrace their worth and create a life that lights them up. I know there’s a better way to live, and I’m thrilled to help you take those first steps toward it.

Let’s shatter those old beliefs together and make room for the life you deserve!

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