The Peaceful Chaos Method

Find Peace, Embrace Your Worth, and Live Life on Your Terms..

Are you ready to break free from the exhaustion of always juggling everything—your family, career, and relationships—while still feeling like you’re falling short?

The Peaceful Chaos Method is a transformative group coaching program designed specifically for women over 40 who feel stuck in chaos, trapped by self-doubt, and held back by the weight of “not good enough” feelings.

It’s time to rediscover who you are, embrace your true worth, and create a life that feels peaceful, joyful, and unapologetically yours.

Who This Program Is For

For Women Ready to Let Go of Old Patterns and Finally Put Themselves First.

If you’ve spent years putting yourself last, running on empty, and doubting your value, you’re not alone. Many women in this program have:

Been conditioned to equate their worth with how much they do for others.
Felt lost in a cycle of overthinking, guilt, and people-pleasing.
Reached a point of burnout or questioned, “Is this really all there is to life?”

This program is for you if you’re ready to stop merely surviving and start living with purpose, peace, and confidence.

What You'll Gain...

In The Peaceful Chaos Method, you’ll embark on a guided journey to:

Understand your patterns: Recognize how chaos, overthinking, and old beliefs have kept you stuck.
Embrace your worth: Break free from the need for external validation and reclaim your inner confidence.
Create meaningful change: Learn how to set boundaries, let go of guilt, and design a life that aligns with what you truly want.

Client Testimonial

Fun, Happiness, and Freedom from my Triggers

“Guess who’s not triggered anymore? ME! 🙋‍♀️

I’ve learned how to laugh more, stress less, and actually have fun again. Even my partner says I’m more patient and confident (and let’s be honest, he’s right). This program helped me stop sweating the small stuff and start enjoying life. If you’re sick of feeling like a ticking time bomb, it’s time to change your story. Trust me—this program is worth it.”

brandy -

michigan USA

What It Includes

Step-by-step guidance

From start to finish,

your journey in The Peaceful Chaos Method is fully supported and led by me, Milou Hilhorst, Empowerment Life Coach with a deep passion for helping women rediscover their worth and strength.

You’ll never feel lost or alone.

I’m by your side with regular check-ins, group coaching calls, and personal outreach so you always have a trusted guide. With me in your corner, cheering you on, you’ll feel empowered to stay on track and supported through every step forward—because with the right empowered guidance,

YOU WILL SUCCEED!!

online content hub

Your path to transformation begins with the Peaceful Chaos Method
online content hub.

With 12 in-depth modules, you’ll access short video lessons and action tasks designed to focus on you.

Together, we’ll move through the

5-Step Framework to Freedom, exploring awareness, understanding, acceptance, discovery, and execution.

These steps will help release the burdens of past conditioning and self-doubt holding you back, and by working at your own pace, you’ll truly experience the freedom and clarity that comes from knowing yourself fully from within.

group coaching

Connect with a community of like-minded women who truly understand your struggles. Whether you choose weekly or twice-monthly sessions, group coaching is where we come together to celebrate wins, share insights, and support one another.

During these calls, I’ll answer questions and share strategies to deepen our understanding of ourselves.

Group coaching is where so many lightbulb moments happen, they are truly remarkable.

The laughs, encouragement, and uplifting talks make it a safe space to grow with others who truly understand what you’re going through.

accountability

Staying on track is key, and this program keeps you accountable every step of the way.

Real change requires real effort, and we’re here together to make sure you’re doing the work needed for lasting transformation.

The accountability structures in this program are designed to keep you motivated and committed, so you can make consistent progress toward the life you desire and deserve.

community

One of the most powerful aspects of
The Peaceful Chaos Method
is the community of like-minded women who “get it.”

Here, you’ll share experiences, support each other, and keep one another motivated, even on the toughest days.

Together, we create a network of encouragement, trust, and shared victories, making the journey to self-worth and empowerment even more enriching.

expert help 24/7

While I may not be answering messages in the middle of the night, I am committed to replying within the next working day.

I’m here to ensure that you get the answers, encouragement, and guidance you need to keep progressing. This approach works seamlessly, regardless of time zones or schedules, so that every member, no matter where they are, has the support they need when they need it.

What Results to Expect..

"Your Perfect life"

Imagine living a life that truly reflects who you are—a life where you’re not just surviving but thriving, full of purpose, joy, and ease.

The Peaceful Chaos Method is designed to help you build your perfect life on your own terms. Through self-discovery, healing, and empowerment, this program allows you to craft a life you genuinely love and are proud of.

By redefining your values and embracing your unique strengths, you’ll step into a world where happiness, peace and contentment are no longer distant dreams.

Instead, they’re part of your everyday reality. This is your chance to live freely, authentically and peacefully.

finding freedom

The Peaceful Chaos Method is about so much more than just “feeling better.” It’s about finding freedom—freedom from old patterns, unworthy beliefs, and the burden of always trying to be “good enough.”

Through this journey, you’ll learn how to shed the heavy conditioning from the past and finally embrace your true self without fear, guilt, or self-doubt. Each step is crafted to help you uncover the joy of living authentically, where you have control over your choices, feelings, and future.

When you find this kind of freedom, life truly opens up, and you finally feel empowered to live as you, with a confidence that’s unshakable.

lasting results

You’ll learn to recognise, challenge, and reframe the limiting beliefs and self-doubt that have held you back for so long. Instead of relying on external validation, you’ll gain an unshakeable sense of self-worth and confidence that stems from within.

My goal is to see you step fully into your power, with a newfound peace and confidence that transform every aspect of your life. These are the results that last a lifetime, helping you navigate the ups and downs with resilience and joy, because you finally know your worth.

The Peaceful Chaos Method
is all about achieving real, enduring results that give you the tools to live your life fully and freely.

Are You Ready?!